Book Ends:
Silent Screams by D.
Cross
Reviewed by
Columnist Kurt Sass
Silent
Screams is a brutally honest, well-written
account of the life of a woman who has endured a myriad of hardships
most of us could barely imagine.
Although the
first four chapters are devoted exclusively to her experiences with
(and failures of) the mental healthcare system, the remainder of the
book is a biography of a life full of setbacks, and more importantly,
uncaring people.
The book is
full of countless example of how people in all facets of life had
failed her. For example, growing up, many doctors would dismiss her
many symptoms until her condition grew worse and worse. This neglect
continued until she finally got diagnosed with tuberculosis, far
later than necessary. In addition, the nuns refused to believe her
when she said she had difficulty walking up stairs.
Years later,
while in a psychiatric hospital for six weeks, she was never told her
diagnosis, participated in completely silent group therapy and
psychiatry sessions and was discharged even though told that she had
no home to go to.
Ms. Cross also
reveals later in the book about an illness later in her life and the
many many delays in getting a proper diagnosis and treatment, all the
time while in constant pain.
If all this
wasn’t enough, throw in some uncaring relatives and three
“predators” and you can see what a brutal existence this women
had to deal with.
The major point
I got from this book, unfortunately, is that no matter where you
turn, especially the ones in whose hands you put your life, they will
disappoint you. Ms. Cross’s viewpoint, as stated in the end pages
of the book, has been one of acceptance.
While I
recommend this book to most people, there are some that definitely
should not be reading this. To most people, this book is a good
example of how, in some cases, the medical/mental health care system,
in the regard to how they treat people, has not changed (in some
cases) over the years. Great strides have been made, and patients for
the most part, have been treated with more dignity, but this book
will show as evidence that much more needs to be done. For this
reason, I recommend this book, especially for mental health and
medical healthcare advocates. While I am glad Ms. Cross has found
peace in acceptance, I wish she had an advocate during her times of
need to help get the proper care and treatment she needed.
On the other
hand, this book should not be read by anyone who is currently
undecided about their opinion of mental health or healthcare
professionals in general or anyone who is contemplating seeing a
therapist or healthcare professional for the first time. It does not
give a full representation of healthcare professionals. This is just
one person’s experience and is not typical. It is also a very
depressing book.
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